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Shared Parental Rights...Of Course!
I am posting a "sample" Shared
Parental Rights Agreement that has been offered
to several Judge's on other's behalf. Not
only did the Judge's accept it, they gave
credit on how well it was written. This Shared
Parental Rights Agreement I will post, includes
a spelled out visitation schedule. It also
covers other issues as well. I might suggest
you copy and paste this in your word program
and add your own personal information in
before submitting it to be mediated on. During
mediation you and the other parent can change
any part of this agreement so it serves you
both. This Shared Parental Rights Agreement
I am posting is what I believe is missing
from the "total packet" you get
from the court house. Perhaps that is why
an Attorney is usually needed to do this.
The packet gives you all the required paperwork
to fill out and file, but is no help in asking
for your Parental Rights. What to ask for,
what to expect, what to offer to negotiate.
I am hoping this agreement gives both of
you a place to start.
"One more very important point I need
to make. If the parent who retains residential
custody is afraid to sign this agreement,
because they are concerned of losing D.H.H.S.
benefits, they don't need to be. The parent
with residential custody can collect, ( Food
Stamps, Mainecare, Taniff ) if they already
have a child support order. Don't worry.
D.H.H.S. will be there to make sure that
support order stays enforced. But really,
what's the big deal anyway? Without the agreement,
the other parent would still be able to collect
benefits. You still would be charged Child
Support. Remember what's important here,
your Parental Rights and a visitation schedule
for the child(ren). Besides, any benefits
you don't have to pay for, that the parent
who has residential custody of your child(ren)
receives, helps who?"
Note: I suggest links along the way, to help you,
as I explain how things work. It may be more
helpful if you read the whole page, before
clicking onto another link.
All the forms for filing a Parental Rights
and Responsibility Order can be found at
Pinetree Legal's website ( Here Under Court Forms ) except one.
"The one form needed for filing Parental
Rights and Responsibility Order that Pinetree
Legal cannot post,is the needed form CV-038 - "The Family Matter Summons
And Preliminary Injunction form" - This form can only be obtained at the
court house. This means that if you do print
out the forms on the Pinetree Website, you
will still need to pick up a "Parental
Rights & Responsibilities" packet
from the Clerk of Courts at the court house.
The cost for the packet is approx: $5.00
and it will include all the paperwork needed, as well as the instructions
on what to do with the paperwork once it
has been filled out. The forms on PTL website
can be filled out, printed out, and replaced
with the same forms that come in the packet.
Also, if you are hoping to ask the court
to wave your filing fee, you will need to
ask the Clerk for an CV-067 - "Application To Proceed Without
Payment form." This is a two page form. The other page
is the "CV-191 - Affidavit." These forms are NOT included in the packet.
If you are also filing this with the other
parent's approval and you have sat down and
determined parent contact and all other issues,
you should also ask for a FM-054 - "Certificate In Lieu Of Case Management"
form."
" If you apply to the court to "Proceed
Without Payment", you may be entitled
to a Free Attorney to help you with this.
As hard as I am trying to explain this whole
process to you, my first suggestion is always
to get an Attorney. Go find out, see: "Ideas, Advice P.T.L. & V.L.P" but please continue reading this before you
do."
Before We Get To How To Fill Out The Paperwork,
Lets Explain The Process That Filing This
Parental Rights And Responsibility Order
Entails.
1. Go to the court house and pick up a Parental
Rights and Responsibility packet from the
Clerk of Courts. This costs $5.00. Ask for
the "Application to Proceed Without Payment"
Form, and if this is uncontested, ask for the
FM-054 - "Certificate In Lieu Of Case Management"
form.
2. Once all the paperwork is filled out,
you will need to go to your bank or credit
union and have a Notary sign the CV-006 - Complaint for Determination of Paternity,
Parental Rights and Responsibilities, Child
Support.form. the "FM- 050 - "Child Support Affidavit"
from the CV-191 - "Affidavit" (page 2) and
also a CV-067 - "Application To Proceed Without
Payment" form. I would also get a notary signature on your
"Shared Parental Agreement"
"Once you have the Notary's signature,
you should make copies of almost EVERYTHING
you receive in the packet, before filing
the originals with the court. You don't need
to make copies of the "Social Security Disclosure" form or the CV- 036 - "Acknowledgment Of Receipt
Of Summons" form. I suggest making 4 copies of all the
rest. One for yourself, one for the other
parent ( that gets mailed to them ) one for
the Department Of Human Services, ( that
gets mailed to them ) and an extra copy,
in case a Guardian at Litem is appointed
to your case by the Mediator. The place where
you get the Notary's signature may have a
copy machine that can be used, for a small
fee. I have used the copy machines located
in the Public Library and at the Court House.
The one form that requires a Notary's signature,
form
3. If you are sending this to the other parent
using registered mail ( I recommend this)
you will send the other parent the Original
CV-038 - "The Family Matter Summons
And Preliminary Injunction form" ( it has the pressed seal) one copy of the
original CV- 036 -"Acknowledgment Of Receipt
Of Summons" a completed copy of the CV-006 - Complaint for Determination of Paternity,
Parental Rights and Responsibilities, Child
Support.form, a completed copy of the "FM- 050 - "Child Support Affidavit"
from. And I suggest sending a copy of the "Shared Agreement" form you make out.
You will need to have a copy of the Order
served on the other parent BEFORE you can
file the copies with the court. This can be done by registered letter, or
by a process server. Process servers do cost
money. If the other parent is NOT going to
object to you filing this Order, then you
can ask a friend to hand the other parent
the paperwork. The other parent will then
sign that they accepted it and you file that
form CV- 036 -"Acknowledgment Of Receipt
Of Summons"with the originals. Remember, you need the
other parent's signature. It is the only
thing needed in order to file this Parental
Rights Order.
If you feel the other parent would object
to your request, you can send a copy of the
Order to the other parent using the registered
mail service. Check the "Return Receipt
Requested" box. The other parent will
have to sign the green card to accept it.
You NEED the signed green card in order to
file this Order. If you believe they might
object to your filing this order, they may
refuse to accept the envelope. In that case,
you may need to have the paperwork served
on them. However, I do have a pretty good
idea on how to get that Green card signed.
"Want to save the cost and aggravation
of having the other parent served?"
see: "Serving A Summons"
Note: YOU cannot "serve" legal paperwork,
that you have brought before the court, to
the other parent.
And..
You cannot file the paperwork with the court
or mail copies to D.H.H.S. until you receive
that signed Green Card back in the mail.
4. You then send a copy of the Order to the
Department of Human Services. They get a
completed copy of the CV-006 - Complaint for Determination of Paternity,
Parental Rights and Responsibilities, Child
Support.form, and a completed copy of the "FM- 050 - "Child Support Affidavit"
from
5. Now you can file all the paperwork with
the court. You need to file all paperwork
within 20 days of that green card's signature
date. A Filing fee will be expected. Approx:
$120.00
(a.) If you feel you cannot afford the fee,
a waiver form can be filled out and the Judge
will decide your request to wave the $120.00
filing fee. see: "Filing For A Waiver Of The Court
Fees" Be prepared to pay the fee within 7 days
if the Judge does not grant your request,
or you will have to start all over again.
The forms you file with the Court: the Notarized
copy of the CV-006 - Complaint for Determination of Paternity,
Parental Rights and Responsibilities, Child
Support.form, the Notarized copy of the "FM- 050 - "Child Support Affidavit"
from. And a Notarized copy of the "Shared Agreement" form. If your requesting a wavier of fees,
a Notarized copy of the CV-067 - "Application To Proceed Without
Payment form." This is a two page form. The other page
is the "CV-191 - Affidavit." form, both copies of the Social Security Disclosure forms, and a copy of the CV- 036 -"Acknowledgment Of Receipt
Of Summons" The most important form? That signed Green
Card! It gets attached to the CV- 036 -"Acknowledgment Of Receipt
Of Summons."
6. Once you file the paperwork with the court,
each parent will receive a letter from the
court, within two weeks, with a "Case
Management" court date, to meet with
a Judge. A member of D.H.H.S. will also be
attending this meeting. At this meeting,
if both parents cannot come to an agreement,
the Judge will determine a temporary order
on visitation, custody and child support.
The Judge will then appoint a Court Mediator
to your case. This will cost each parent
an extra $60.00 each. After the Judge places
a Temporary Order in effect, you will both
receive a new court date to meet with a court
appointed Mediator. The Mediator is willing
to help you both reach an agreement. If you
want this to end quickly, I would strongly
suggest that you both remember what is best
for the children and come to some terms.
Because if that isn't possible, the Mediator
probably will appoint a Guardian Ad Litem
to your case. This person will be your child(ren)'s
Attorney not yours and you may have to pay
for your child(ren)'s Attorney. The Guardian
Ad Litem will make recommendations to the
court, for your child(ren) based on their
interviews with both parents, family, friends,
school, doctors, and anyone who can prove
or disprove any allegations made against
either parent! The Guardian Ad Litem may
want some parenting classes taken by both
parents or maybe a drug or alcohol program
done. These programs are designed to help
you with your problems and will hold some
"weight" to your requests, if you
attend them if required. Failure to show
up for any court dates or meetings may mean
that you give up your right (at this time)
to secure your Parental Rights and a decision
may be made without you being present.
"The Mediator is there to do exactly
what the title says, to mediate your situation
so both parties can come to a mutual decision
on the child(ren). The Mediator is also very
aware of the "control" issue some
parents have and their desire to keep it.
Who may or may not be willing to compromise.
Those parents will not be looked upon very
well. The Mediator knows each parent has
equal rights to their child(ren) and unless
one parent can show why those rights should
not be granted, your requests will be listened
to and taken into consideration. Also keep
in mind any allegations that you bring to
the table will be investigated. Going back
and forth with the "he did she did"
thing will slow down the whole process and
you could both lose in the end. If the physical
custody isn't an issue, if you both agree
where the child (ren) should reside, then
the rest should be able to be negotiated."
All the paperwork you filed for this Parental
Rights Order is put in your file under a
docket number. Most of the paperwork, as
you may have noticed, was just legal issues
that addressed Names, Addresses, Child Support
Obligations, and Financial Statements. None
of them helps you figure out what to ask
for as far as your Parental Rights are concerned.
That is where an Attorney comes into play.
They give you the list of what can be asked
for and help you figure out what you want.
That's why they get paid. I can't help you
decide what to chose, but I can give you
the "list"...... for free. When
you both meet with the mediator you need
somewhere to start. The sample "Shared Parental Rights Agreement" I am posting I hope will be a starting point.
If the Primary Residence stays as it is,
you may get what you are asking for. However,
if the other parent disagrees with any part
of the agreement, the mediator is there to
determine what is in the best interest of
everyone involved. Compromise from both parents
will get you a long way here. Once an agreement
has been hammered out and agreed to by both
parents, the Mediator will type up the new
agreement and file the agreement with the
court. I believe you both will receive copies
in the mail. But if I am wrong about this,
go to the court house with the docket number
and ask for a copy! You will always need
it to show schools, camps, and Doctors, to
name a few.
Sitting Down At The Table.
So what is the really hard part? Making out
the paperwork or sitting down to reach an
agreement?
I''m hoping it's the paperwork.
The other parent has to be willing to negotiate
or they may be looked at as the parent who
may not have the child's best interests in
mind. That interest is to be able to have
both parent's in that child's life, not just
one. I cannot stress this enough. Be willing
to negotiate or this court action can be
a long and intrusive affair for both parents.
As I stated before, if a Guardian Ad Litem
is appointed because an agreement cannot
be reached or because allegations are being
brought up, the whole issue of who should
receive custody and how visitation should
be handled will be based on their recommendations,
not yours. Your "agreement" that
you want accepted may be dramatically altered,
if any allegations are proved. Residential
custody could also be in jepodary, if the
parent with physical custody is proven in
any allegations the Guardian feels may be
a safety issue.
"If there is any chance you both can
agree to an agreement before anyone files
the Parental Rights Order, that is the best
course to take. I have helped a couple of
people do this. The years had gone by and
the resentment wasn't there anymore. They
agreed to do what was best for the children.
That is why the Shared Parental Rights agreement
I wrote, worked. This Shared Agreement also
includes all the "unknown" situations
your child may find themselves in as they
grow up. From school issues to the law, your
child's problems also become both of your
responsibilities. 50/50! When the other parent
understands that they will now have some
help with the bad things that may happen,
they come around. At least my friends did.".
So Lets Be Right Up Front With The Cost.
1. Paperwork Packet: - $5.00
2. Copies: - $3.00
3. Filing Fee: - $120.00
4. Serving paperwork: - -$5.00
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Total: $ 133.00
5. Mediation fee: - $80.00 each. - If Needed.
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Approx. Total Cost: $213.00
"Remember you can file for a waiver
of fees if you cannot afford to pay the filing
fees. Keep in mind that the Judge may or
may not accept your request. "
Now, just so we are clear. For approx: $213.00
you will get a mediation date to discuss
your Parental Rights and Responsibilities.
To receive regular visitation, to gain access
to your child's medical records and School
Records, and to be told where and when the
other parent wishes to relocate. You also
might be entitled to claim your children
during specific years, on your income taxes,
if your child support is being paid. I believe
$213.00 is not a bad investment! Once the
Parental Rights and Responsibilities Order
has been signed by a Judge, it cannot be
changed without a court order!
LETS GET TO IT!
All the forms for filing a Parental Rights
and Responsibility Order can be found at
Pinetree Legal's website ( Here Under Court Forms ) except one.
You can go to the PTL website and actually
fill in most of the forms online to print
out. Use Hot Docs to do this.
How To Fill Out The Forms You Need:
1. FM-002 - Confidential Family Matter Summary
Sheet - This sheet asks for basic information, and
is pretty easy to fill out. "The only question I could see that
might throw you is the question : Original Proceeding? - Which means first time any paperwork has
ever been filed. This is probably the one
you want to check. When you receive a docket
number, it should be written on every form
you file with the court. Or, Post Judgement, which means that if there has been paperwork
filed before, you will need that docket number
to file your case. Example: A Motion to Modify
would be a Post Judgement case."
2. CV/CR/FM/PC-200 Social Security Number Disclosure
Form - This form lists your Social Security Number
and your child(ren's) Social Security Numbers.
"This will be a District Court Case
not a Superior Court Case and if no previous
paperwork exists, there is no docket number.
Also, If you do not know the Social Security
Numbers of your children that is OK. Just
put down unknown."
3. CV-006 Complaint for Determination of Paternity,
Parental Rights and Responsibilities, Child
Support. ( after you have re-typed my sample Parental
Rights Agreement to figure out what works
best for both parents, you can include it
with this form.)
A. There is no Docket Number until you file
this. Then you will use that Docket Number
on all paperwork that gets filed.
B.. Plaintiff: You
C. Defendant: The Other Parent
D. District Court
E. Location: Cumberland County
1. List each child's name, date of birth,
and where the child now lives.
2. Plaintiff - List your town, county and
state
3. Defendant - Other parent's address
4a. List where the children have lived for
the past 5 years.
4b This question asks you if there is any
other court action filed in another State,
for the child. If the answer is yes, you
check the "other" box, and this
gets more complicated. If there is no other
court action and if there is no Protection
From Abuse filed against you or the other
parent or a Protective Custody Order, you
can skip this section. If you cannot skip
this section, please ask an Attorney what
to do. see:Ideas, Advice P.T.L. & V.L.P
"I was hoping to keep this simple but
if there is a P.F.A. ( Protection From Abuse
) Order issued against either parent, and
it was issued on behalf of the child(ren),
it usually states that the parent cannot
have contact with the person who obtained
that order, for a period of two years. If
that order is against you, once the order
has expired, you can file the Parental Rights
and Responsibility paperwork. If the Protection
From Abuse Order is for the other parent
only, and not on behalf of the children,
you can still file for your Parental Rights
and Responsibility and still receive visitation.
You will just have to make arrangements for
the pick up and drop off of your children.
for the remainder of the Order" ( I
would add that the V.L.P. probably can answer
any questions you may have in reference to
a P.F.A. and your Parental Rights to visitation
and the information is free. ) see: "Ideas, Advice P.T.L. & V.L.P"
Note: "If the person who has the P.F.A. Order
would like that Order dismissed, they can
ask the court to do so." see: " Filing A Protection From Abuse
Order"
4c. Does anyone else have physical custody
of your children? If not, skip this section.
5. Check all boxes that apply.
a. Have you or the other parent collected
benefits for the children from the State?
If so, check off "Public assistance
has been received for the children"
b. You need to send a copy of this Order
to the D.H.H.S. Support Enforcement Department
address listed on this form.
c. If there is a child support order in effect,
check this box. If you have a copy of the
order attach it to this document. If not,
I believe D.H.H.S. will have a copy they
can send you.
d. If your the (Plaintiff) parent without
physical custody, who pays child support
and your the one filing this order, if you
want your child support reviewed, you would
check this box. If your the (Plaintiff) parent
with physical custody of the children, and
this isn't about changing or enforcing a
child support order, leave this blank.
"No matter what you check off as far
as the child support issues D.H.H.S. will
be there in the courtroom when you both go
to your hearing. That is the reason you send
them a copy."
Plaintiff Requests That The Court:
"If there is a child support order in
effect, the first two boxes ( a & b )
would not apply.
a.
b.
c. Determine Parental Rights and Responsibilities.
"This is the box you check."
d. D.H.H.S. has already done this if a child
support order is in effect.
e. The last two boxes I am not even going
to bother with. Needless to say, if you check
either one, you must be pretty angry.
Attorney for Plaintiff: Leave blank if your
doing this yourself.
Now you date it, sign it, ( But Not Yet! ) and write down your address and phone
number
"Before you can file this form with
the court, it has to be signed by a Notary Public. You also must sign this and date it in the
presence of the Notary. Bring along a picture
ID to use as verification of your identity.
You can usually find a free Notary at the
Bank or Credit Union you use. If you have
no accounts, you can still use the Bank's
Notary, but they may charge you a small fee."
4. CV-036 - ACKNOWLEDGMENT OF RECEIPT OF SUMMONS
AND COMPLAINT OR POST-JUDGMENT MOTION.
One original copy of this form, needs to
be filed with your original paperwork, regardless
of how Service was completed.
If registered mail was used, you sent the
other parent a copy of this form and they
are suppose to send it back to prove they
were served. Most don't do that.
Just file the signed green card with this
form and fill out the information below.
a. District Court
b. Location: Cumberland
c. Docket Number assigned yet? N/Y
d. Plaintiff: You
e. Defendant: Other Parent.
Everything below the word "Notice"
just leave bland.
The signed green card proves the other parent
received the paperwork.
5. CV-038 - FAMILY MATTER SUMMONS AND PRELIMINARY
INJUNCTION
This form is the one not listed on the PTL
website. Why?
This form has a State Seal pressed into it.
It tells the Defendant of the action being
brought against them and puts a "Preliminary
Injunction" in effect which prohibits
restrain of personal liberty of the other
party (you) or the children. Contempt of
court charges are threatened if this Official
Court Order is not followed.
Location: Cumberland
Docket # ______________
Plaintiff: You
Defendant: Other Parent
a. You date it
b. Circle (Plaintiff)
c. Print you name and address / (you can
leave the phone number blank if you need
to)
6. FM-050- CHILD SUPPORT AFFIDAVIT
Location: Cumberland
Docket # ______________
Plaintiff: You
Defendant: Other Parent
Name: Yours
Date of Birth: Yours
Name and address of your present employer
1. GROSS INCOME:
A. Use your taxes from last year to answer
this.
B. Loaded Question. "Your answer? No more than last year!"
2.OTHER GROSS INCOME
Expected this year. "The key word here is Expected. I'll
never forget my Lobsterman son who put down
a large amount and "Expected" more
than he got that year in sales. That Expected
amount became the basis of the amount of
child support he was ordered to pay. If you
get a certain amount a month due to Workman's
Comp or Unemployment, or from any of the
places they list, times the amount you receive
by 52 weeks and that is the amount you "Expect
this year."
3. EMPLOYMENT FRINGE BENEFITS
Again, you "Expect to receive."
4.TOTAL GROSS INCOME:
Add 1b, 2, and 3. " Notice you do not
add 1A. which asked "how much did you make last year? "Instead, they add the EXPECTED Gross Income you put down."
(Back Page)
5. YEARLY SUPPORT YOU PAY FOR OTHER CHILDREN:
6. WEEKLY HEALTH INSURANCE:
a. Put down what your employer takes out
of your check if you have a job, and have
insurance.
b. If you pay for insurance for other child(ren),
put down that information.
7. WEEKLY CHILD CARE COSTS:
"If this applies write down the amount."
8. WEEKLY EXTRAORDINARY MEDICAL EXPENSIVE:
"If your child has medical issues, put
down the cost and reason for the expense."
9. OTHER CHILDREN IN YOUR HOME:
Other children you are legally responsible
for.
10. OTHER FACTS:
"If there are circumstances in your
situation that affects your Child Support,
perhaps waiting for a decision from Social
Security or Unemployment, list that here."
11. ASSETS AND DEBTS:
"If you have real estate, stocks and
bonds, or recreational vehicles, I hope you
have an Attorney."
"This is pretty self explanatory. If
your like me, a person just trying to make
it, most of it probably won't even apply
You don't sign this form yet! It is one of
the forms that need a Notary signature.
THERE. YOUR DONE!
" It will be interesting to see how
this works out for you. About six months
after my ex and I filed our agreement, neither
one of us could remember what the visitation
schedule was. Know why? Because it didn't
matter anymore. Neither one of us had "control"
over it. It forced us to communicate and
visitation ended up being "could you
take / keep him for today?" Our lives
were now easy to schedule, knowing we each
would be a free "sitter" for the
other parent, when needed."
If you have any questions I failed to answer,
the V.L.P. answers them for free and will
also look at your paperwork before you file
it, for Free. see: "Ideas, Advice P.T.L. & V.L.P."
Go Back To The Middle Of This Page To "So How Does This Work" and follow the steps to serve and file your
action.
BUT WAIT......
"If there is any chance you both can
come to an agreement before anyone files
the Parental Rights Order, that is the best
course to take. I have helped a couple of
people do this. The years had gone by and
the resentment wasn't there anymore. They
agreed to do what was best for the children.
That is why the Shared Parental Agreement
I wrote worked. This also includes all the
"unknown" situations your child
may find themselves in as they grow up. From
school issues to the law, your child's problems
also become both of your responsibilities.
50/50! When the other parent understands
that they will now have some help with the
bad things that may happen, they come around.
At least my friends did. So why did they
even bother to file the Order if they got
along so well? The parent who did not have
physical custody could not get a report card
mailed to them, couldn't call the Doctor
and get any information. With a copy of the
Order given to both the Dr. and the school,
they were given information on medical history
and sent all school related activities and
progress reports. If you can work out the
agreement with the other parent before filing,
you will breeze through the process, save
some money and skip any Guardian at Litem
appointments, You'll also be showing the
Judge that you are two parents who are doing
what is best for your children!"
All you need to file with your paperwork
is the "Shared Custody Agreement" you both agreed on and the FM-054 - "Certificate In Lieu Of Case Management"
form." Remember, Child Support cannot be an issue.
If there is an order already in effect, this
should go smoothly.
You may have to "fight" against
the other parent. I have seen many a parent
feel great reluctant to give up that control
they got used to having. because they just
realized that the control now may not be
in their hands. Here is the good news. If
there is really no good reason to dispute
what you are requesting, there should be
no reason your requests should be denied.
The Courts understand the importance of both
parents roles in theirs child's lives. You
may have to change a few things from your
original request, but I am very hopeful the
I am not a Lawyer! Because of that, I feel
I really need to push this "negotiate"
warning I was trying so elegantly to get
across. Remember, I fought many custody battles
against my last ex. Allegations from both
of us, flew like the wind. Every one of them
were investigated and the months, turned
into more than a year and a half. We were
in and out of courtrooms almost every month.
I lost custody of my son twice, for 28 days,
due to false allegations written on two Protection
From Abuse charges. My point? I had no idea what it was doing to my son
and I believe she didn't either. Allegations, real or not, are really not
the issue here unless it deals directly with
your children's safety. None of us are perfect
and we both were lucky the Guardian Ad Litem
put up with us, for as long as he did. I
would really advise you both to save yourselves
allot of pain and agony and do the right
thing. Take that agreement, discuss what
you can both accept as far as terms, and
file the "Certificate In Lieu Of Mediation".
You may not get all you are asking for, but
I believe you will end up with more then
what you had! If you think my words might
sway the other parent, then by all means
share this link with them. Please keep this
simple...... for your children's sake.
My Final Thought...
"I would ask you to please remember, my knowledge
is from helping others and doing the work
involved to help them with their cases. I
am NOT a Lawyer. I really enjoy exploring
all the angles of any legal situation one
finds themselves in. I also enjoy helping
those that have been wronged or just have
given up. When I help others it fuels my
desire to learn more. I hope this website
helps you to understand how and where to
seek help. How to involve yourself with your
Attorney and help them with your case. Hopefully
you will learn a thing or two that helps
you in your own struggles. To me, some of
the laws seems simple. Almost common sense.
I always start at the end and work my way
back. What is the worst thing that could
happen to you? Spending time in jail? Paying
a fine? Having to report to a Probation Officer?
Go to the end. That is where you start. Once
you know what the end result might be, It
makes it a bit easier to focus on what needs
to be done and what you can live with as
far as a plea agreement"